This new cat has created chaos of a sort, but not entirely unwelcome and definitely not unneeded.He has bonded deeply with my 19 year old son, and they have a wonderful routine together, as they both like periods of deep relaxation and privacy during the day." while everyone around me rolls their eyes and says, "Yes, are you kidding? If total strangers and friends think you guys are giving off couple vibes, it's because he's absolutely wishing you two were a couple. When he hugs you, it feels like he's making out with you using only his arms.If your hugs used to be kind of standard, and now they're longer and more affectionate, it's because #feelings are there.He weakly hissed at me, which I of course ignored, and I rushed him back down the street and into my car.He quickly crawled under the front seat and fearfully peaked out at me. Except that here he was, in my car, looking at me as if to say "What's next?
He is truly a wonderful blessing and simply adds so much happiness to our home.
Because I tend to lean toward "maybe he's just being nice!!! One time I had a guy at a bar tell me he didn't ask me out because he saw I had a boyfriend.
" and usually need to be beaten over the head with mixtapes, picnics, and quirky flower arrangements before I start to think, "Wait, does Jeff like me? The guy he saw was not my boyfriend, but he was a guy friend I thought might be into me.
Seriously, one of you has to say something soon so you can just get together and be super cute already.
About two months ago, I was driving home from a client's home, with my van full of various rummage that I needed to drop off to charity, on my way to have some dental work.